
By PM Kimbler
I’m About to Make a Lot of Christians Uncomfortable
Once saved, always saved. It’s one of the most comforting doctrines in modern Christianity. You prayed a prayer, accepted Jesus, and now you’re eternally secure no matter what. You could walk away from the faith, live like the devil, and still go to heaven because salvation can’t be lost. It’s a done deal. A permanent transaction. You’re in.
I was raised Baptist, and because of that, I always thought there was a good possibility I might face a day where I would be beheaded for my faith. I took Scripture seriously. Then I met my mother-in-law. She convinced me – by picking and choosing scriptures – that once you’re saved, you’re saved, period, and I believed it for many years. That is, until I actually started really reading the Word of God – not just the verses people use to defend this doctrine, but all of it.
That’s not what the Bible actually teaches. Now, before you stop reading or fire off an angry comment, hear me out, because if this doctrine is wrong, the consequences are eternal. And if large portions of the Church are teaching a version of salvation that gives people a false sense of security, we need to talk about it.
I’m not here to make you comfortable. I’m here to tell you the truth. The truth is this: the Bible is full of warnings about falling away, losing your salvation, and being cut off from Christ. You can’t just ignore those passages because they don’t fit your theology.
Why This Doctrine Is So Appealing
I get why people love this teaching. It’s comforting. It removes fear. It makes salvation feel safe and secure, like a done deal that can never be undone. You don’t have to worry about whether you’re good enough or whether you’ll make it to the end. Once you’re saved, you’re always saved. No matter what. In a world full of uncertainty, that kind of guarantee feels like peace. But is it real peace?
Comfort doesn’t equal truth. Just because a doctrine makes you feel safe doesn’t mean it’s biblical. When you actually read Scripture without the lens of this doctrine pre-installed, you’ll find that the Bible actually paints a very different picture. Yes, God is faithful. Yes, His grace is sufficient. Yes, salvation is a gift, not something we earn. However, nowhere does Scripture say that once you accept Christ, you can live however you want and still be saved. In fact, it says the exact opposite.
Salvation Isn’t a Prayer You Said When You Were Five
Let’s start here: salvation is not a one-time event that you can point back to and say, “I’m good forever because of that moment.” People get caught up in emotion all the time. It’s about having a real relationship, and relationships require faithfulness. If you got married and then never spoke to your spouse again, never spent time with them, and lived like they didn’t exist, would you still call that a marriage? Technically, maybe. But functionally? No. You abandoned it.
The same is true with Christ. You can’t accept Him once and then spend the rest of your life ignoring Him, rejecting Him, and living in open rebellion against His Word and still claim you’re saved. That’s not biblical Christianity. That’s cheap grace, and it’s a lie that’s sending people to hell with a false sense of security.
It’s About Relationship, Not Being a “Good Person”
I heard a pastor tell a story about being on a secular radio show that perfectly illustrates this. I can’t remember which show or which pastor – if you know, drop it in the comments – but the analogies he used are too good not to share.
This pastor was on a nationally syndicated talk show, and the host was openly hostile to Christianity. Before they went live, the host said, “Don’t you dare quote me one Bible verse over my airwaves. You got that?” So the pastor agreed – no Scripture. Then the host went on the air and said, “I submit to you that you Christians are unreasonable because you don’t consider my viewpoint. My viewpoint is just as valid as your Christian viewpoint. I’m a good person, and I should be let into heaven. And if your God doesn’t let me in, then He’s actually guilty of a hate crime. So what do you have to say for yourself, Christian?”
The pastor said God gave him an analogy on the spot. He said, “Okay, you think you’re a good person and you should be let into heaven. So let’s say you went and found the most expensive home in the country, knocked on their door, and said, ‘Excuse me, but I’m moving in with you because I’m a good person.’ What do you think those people would say?”
The host admitted, “They’d say, ‘Heck no. You have no relationship with us.'”
The pastor said, “Exactly. But you go through your whole life having nothing to do with God. You deny Jesus as the Son of God, who He said is the only way to His house. Then at the end of your life, you have the nerve to come knock on His door and demand to live there because you’re a good person? What does being good have to do with it? You have no relationship with Him.”
The pastor continued, “God offers to be your Father throughout your whole life. But you push Him away. You say, ‘No, I don’t want You. I’m not interested.’ See, God is your Creator – but He’s not your Father until you invite Jesus in as your Savior. That’s the difference.” The Bible makes this clear in passages like Galatians 3:26, which says we become children of God through faith in Christ Jesus, and John 1:12, which says to those who receive Him, He gives the right to become children of God. God is everyone’s Creator, but He’s only the Father of those who have accepted His Son.
The host got quiet. But then he came back with, “Well, you Christians are narrow-minded. You think you’re the only ones who are right. I think all roads lead to heaven. That’s what I think.”
So the pastor gave him another analogy. He said, “Let’s say you invited me over to dinner at your home, and you said, ‘I want you to go south on the 405, turn right at Culver, go up the hill – that’s the only way to get to my house.’ But I said to you, ‘You know what? I think I’m going to go north on the 405. I’m going to get off at Beach Boulevard, because I think all roads lead to your house. That’s what I think.'”
The pastor said, “You’d tell me, ‘Bill, you’re not going to get to my house. I’m trying to give you clear directions to my house.’ It’s the same thing. God gives us clear directions to His house. I think God knows where He lives.”
The host had no response. Because the truth is, you can’t demand access to someone’s home just because you think you’re a good person. And you can’t ignore God’s clear directions and expect to end up in heaven anyway. Salvation isn’t about being good. It’s about having a relationship with the God who offers it. And that relationship requires surrender, repentance, and faithfulness.
The Warnings Are Everywhere
If once saved, always saved is true, then why does the Bible spend so much time warning believers about falling away? Why would God waste ink on hypothetical situations that can never actually happen? The warnings aren’t just suggestions. They’re not just scare tactics. They’re real, and they’re directed at people who were once in the faith.
Hebrews 6:4-6 says, “It is impossible for those who have once been enlightened, who have tasted the heavenly gift, who have shared in the Holy Spirit, who have tasted the goodness of the word of God and the powers of the coming age and who have fallen away, to be brought back to repentance.” That’s not talking about people who were never saved. It’s talking about people who were enlightened, who tasted the Holy Spirit, who experienced the goodness of God, and then fell away. If falling away isn’t possible, this passage makes no sense.
Hebrews 10:26-27 says, “If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left, but only a fearful expectation of judgment and of raging fire that will consume the enemies of God.” Notice it says “we.” Not them. Not unbelievers – Us. It’s the people who have received the knowledge of the truth. It warns that if we deliberately keep on sinning, there’s no sacrifice left. That’s terrifying, and it’s directed solely at believers.
Jesus Himself Warned About It
Jesus didn’t preach once saved, always saved. He preached endurance. He preached faithfulness. He preached finishing the race. In Matthew 24:13, He said, “The one who stands firm to the end will be saved.” Not the one who prayed a prayer once. The one who stands firm to the end. In John 15:6, He said, “If you do not remain in me, you are like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned.” That’s not a metaphor for losing rewards. That’s a warning about being cut off and judged. Into the fire and burned – that sounds like hell to me.
What about the parable of the sower in Matthew 13? Jesus describes four types of soil. Some receive the Word with joy but fall away when trouble comes. Some are choked by the worries of this life and the deceitfulness of wealth. Only one type of soil produces a lasting harvest. If once saved, always saved is true, then all four types would be saved because they all initially received the Word. But Jesus makes it clear that only the last type endures and produces fruit. The others fall away. That cannot be explained away no matter how hard you try.
But What About John 10 and Romans 8?
Okay, okay… I know what you’re thinking. What about John 10:28-29, where Jesus says, “I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand”? Or how about Romans 8:38-39, where Paul says nothing can separate us from the love of God? Those verses are 100% true, and they’re beautiful. However, they don’t teach once saved, always saved. They teach that no external force can snatch you away from God. No demon. No person. No circumstance. They don’t say you can’t walk away yourself.
It’s true, God will never leave you, but you can leave Him. God’s faithfulness is absolute, but our faithfulness is required. That’s the tension Scripture holds. God keeps His promises. We are called to remain in Him, abide in Him, and endure to the end – finish the race. Security in Christ doesn’t mean you can live however you want. It means you’re secure as long as you remain in Him.
Faith Must Continue
Colossians 1:22-23 says, “But now he has reconciled you by Christ’s physical body through death to present you holy in his sight, without blemish and free from accusation, if you continue in your faith, established and firm, and do not move from the hope held out in the gospel.” Notice the word “if.” Your reconciliation is secure if you continue in your faith. Not if you prayed a prayer once. If you continue. That’s ongoing. That’s active. That’s not a one-time transaction.
Philippians 2:12 says, “Continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling.” Not “Rest in your salvation because it’s already done and nothing you do matters.” Work it out with fear and trembling. That doesn’t sound like the casual assurance of once saved, always saved. That sounds like a serious, ongoing responsibility to walk with God faithfully.
Living Faith vs Dead Faith
James 2:17 says, “Faith without works is dead.” A lot of people claim to have faith. They say they believe in Jesus, but their lives show no evidence of any transformation. No obedience. No fruit. No love for God or others. James tells us that kind of faith is dead. It’s not real, and dead faith doesn’t save anyone.
You can’t live like the devil and claim you’re saved because you prayed a prayer once. That’s not Christianity. That’s self-deception. I John 2:4 says, “Whoever says, ‘I know him,’ but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person.” That’s harsh, but it’s true. If you claim to know Jesus but don’t obey Him, you’re lying. And if you’re lying about knowing Him, maybe you aren’t saved.
The Excuse of “The Holy Spirit Will Convict Me”
Here’s one of the most dangerous excuses I hear from Christians living in ongoing sin: “It’s the Holy Spirit’s job to convict me, not yours. If what I’m doing was really wrong, He’d tell me. Since I don’t feel convicted about it, I must be fine.”
Let me be blunt: that’s manipulation. That’s using Scripture to justify disobedience. It’s a lie straight from hell.
Yes, the Holy Spirit convicts. John 16:8 says He convicts the world of sin, righteousness, and judgment. Here’s what people miss: the Holy Spirit convicts through the Word of God. If the Bible already says something is sin – and you’re doing it anyway while waiting for a “feeling” to tell you to stop – you’re not waiting on the Holy Spirit. You’re ignoring Him.
You don’t get to live in sexual immorality and say, “Well, if it was really wrong, I’d feel convicted.” Scripture already told you it’s wrong. You don’t get to gossip, lie, cheat, or live in rebellion and claim the Holy Spirit hasn’t spoken to you yet. He spoke. It’s called the Bible. If you can read what God’s Word says about sin and feel nothing, that’s not proof you’re fine. That’s proof your heart may be hardened.
The absence of conviction isn’t permission. It’s a warning sign. It means you’ve ignored the Holy Spirit so many times that you’ve seared your conscience. I Timothy 4:2 talks about people whose consciences have been seared as with a hot iron. They can sin without feeling anything because they’ve trained themselves not to listen. If that’s you, you’re in serious danger.
True believers feel conviction when they sin. They grieve over it. They repent. They turn back to God. If you can sin without grief, without repentance, without any desire to change, you need to examine whether the Holy Spirit is in you at all.
“You’re Judging Me” – And Yes, I Am
The moment you confront someone about their sin, you’ll hear it: “You’re judging me! Doesn’t the Bible say not to judge?” And then they’ll quote Matthew 7:1 – “Judge not, that you be not judged” – as if that settles it.
Except it doesn’t. Because they didn’t read the rest of the passage. Or the rest of Scripture.
Jesus didn’t say never judge. He said don’t judge hypocritically. Matthew 7:5 says, “First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” Notice He didn’t say, “Mind your own business and never address anyone’s sin.” He said deal with your own sin first, and then help your brother deal with his. That’s not a prohibition against judging. That’s an instruction on how to judge rightly.
In fact, Jesus explicitly commanded us to judge. John 7:24 says, “Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly.” Not “stop judging.” Judge correctly. There’s a difference between condemning someone’s soul to hell – which is God’s job, not ours – and calling out sin according to Scripture – which is absolutely our responsibility.
I Corinthians 5:12 makes it even clearer: “What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside?” Paul is saying we absolutely should judge those who claim to be believers. If someone calls themselves a Christian but lives in open, unrepentant sin, we’re supposed to call it out. Not with self-righteousness. Not with condemnation. But with truth and love, because their eternity is at stake.
The problem is, most people don’t want accountability. They want affirmation. They want you to celebrate their choices, validate their feelings, and never suggest that anything they’re doing might be wrong. When you refuse to do that – when you love them enough to tell them the truth – they accuse you of being judgmental.
Here’s the reality: if you can’t handle biblical correction, that’s not a problem with the person correcting you. That’s a heart problem. Proverbs 9:8 says, “Do not rebuke mockers or they will hate you; rebuke the wise and they will love you.” A true believer receives correction. They might not like it in the moment, but they recognize it as love. Someone who gets defensive, deflects, and accuses you of judging? That’s a red flag.
Love doesn’t stay silent while someone is walking toward destruction. Love tells the truth. If the truth makes you uncomfortable, maybe that’s conviction you’re feeling. Don’t ignore it.
Sinning vs Struggling With Sin
There’s a difference between struggling with sin and living in sin. Every believer struggles. We all fall short. We all need grace daily. Romans 7 shows us that even Paul wrestled with sin. However, struggling with sin and repenting is not the same as willfully, deliberately continuing in sin without repentance. I John 3:6 says, “No one who lives in him keeps on sinning. No one who continues to sin has either seen him or known him.” That’s not talking about occasional failure. That’s talking about a lifestyle. A pattern. A refusal to repent.
Let me give you a real-world example. Someone struggling with drug addiction. They hate what it’s doing to their life. They hate disappointing God. They repent with tears, swear it off, get clean for a while. Then when life gets hard, when the cravings get overwhelming, they fold. They use again, and they’re devastated. They repent again. They cry out to God again. They get back up and keep fighting.
That’s struggling with sin. That’s a believer who’s caught in a battle but hasn’t given up the fight. Yes, they keep falling. Yes, they keep failing, but they also keep repenting. They keep coming back to God. They hate the sin. They want to be free. That grief, that repentance, that desperate cry for help – that’s evidence the Holy Spirit is at work in them.
Now contrast that with someone who uses drugs and feels nothing. No conviction. No grief. No desire to stop. They justify it, rationalize it, or just don’t care. They might call themselves a Christian, but their life shows no evidence of the Spirit’s work. No repentance. No battle. Just ongoing, unrepentant sin. That’s not struggling with sin. That’s living in it. And that’s the difference that matters.
If you claim to be a Christian but your life is characterized by ongoing, unrepentant sin, you need to examine whether you’re actually saved. Not because God’s grace isn’t sufficient – because real salvation produces real change. II Corinthians 5:17 says, “If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” If nothing has changed, if you’re still living the same way you did before you claimed to accept Christ, you need to ask yourself whether you truly know Him.
How to Grow Closer to God
So what does it look like to actually walk with God? To remain in Him? To live out your faith in a way that honors Him and secures your salvation? It starts with repentance. Real, genuine repentance. Not just feeling sorry when you get caught or asking for forgiveness so you can go back to the same sin tomorrow. True repentance means turning away from sin and turning toward God. It means hating what He hates and loving what He loves.
It means spending time in His Word daily. Not out of obligation, but because you genuinely want to know Him. Psalm 1 says the person who meditates on God’s Word day and night is like a tree planted by streams of water. They bear fruit. They don’t wither. They thrive. If you’re not in the Word, you’re not growing. If you’re not growing, you’re dying. It means prayer. Real, honest conversation with God. Not just reciting the same prayers you learned as a kid. Talking to Him. Listening to Him. Bringing your struggles, your doubts, your fears to Him and trusting that He hears you.
It means being part of a church. Not just showing up on Sunday and checking a box. Actually being part of a body of believers who challenge you, encourage you, and hold you accountable. Hebrews 10:24-25 says, “Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another.” You can’t walk this road alone. You need community. You need accountability. It also means obedience. Jesus said, “If you love me, keep my commands” (John 14:15). Love isn’t just a feeling. It’s action, and if you truly love God, you’ll obey Him. Not perfectly, but faithfully.
Why This Matters
I know this isn’t easy to hear. I know it challenges what a lot of people have been taught their whole lives, but eternity is at stake. If the modern Church is giving people false assurance, we need to talk about it. The scariest thing Jesus ever said is found in Matthew 7:21-23: “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!'”
Notice the word here is many. Not a few people. Many people. Those who thought they were saved. Those who did ministry in His name. People who called Him Lord. On that day, He will say, “I never knew you.” That should terrify us, because it means there are people sitting in churches right now who think they’re saved but aren’t. If once saved, always saved has given them false security, they’re in serious danger.
The Real Assurance
So where does that leave us? Are we supposed to live in constant fear that we might lose our salvation? No. But we’re supposed to live in reverent awareness that our faith must be real, active, and enduring. The assurance of salvation doesn’t come from a prayer you prayed once. It comes from a life that shows evidence of transformation. From ongoing repentance, abiding in Christ, producing fruit, and enduring to the end.
I John 5:13 says, “I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life.” You can know. Knowing comes from examining your life and seeing the evidence of genuine faith. It’s not from clinging to a doctrine that makes you feel safe while you live in rebellion. If you’re truly saved, your life will show it. You’ll struggle and you’ll fall, but you’ll get back up. You’ll repent. You’ll keep pursuing God. If that’s you, you can rest in the assurance that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion (Philippians 1:6).
Be warned, if your life shows no evidence of faith, if you’re living in ongoing, unrepentant sin, if you have no desire for God or His Word, you need to stop lying to yourself. Examine your heart. Repent. Turn to Jesus. Not just once, but daily. Because salvation isn’t a one-time prayer. It’s a lifelong relationship with the God who saved you, and that relationship requires faithfulness.
So where do you stand? Are you truly in Christ? Or are you resting on false assurance? Don’t wait until it’s too late to find out.
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About PM Kimbler
PM Kimbler is a Christian conservative author, speaker, and former congressional candidate (California’s 36th District, 2020 primary). She is the founder of BeaconLight Press and writes unapologetically about faith, culture, and politics from a biblical worldview. Her mission is to challenge Christians to live without compromise in a world that demands it. Connect with her at pmkimbler.com.
External Resources
For Scripture references mentioned in this article, visit Bible Gateway.
Such a great read! A very important reminder not to become complacent